Your 2013 NWA Mom Prom Queen: Meet the mother behind the crown

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Did you have a happy Mother’s Day?

We hope so!

We are positive it was happy for Marie Starr, the mama of three who was crowned the 2013 NWA Mom Prom Queen on May 4. She received TWO huge baskets of treats from local businesses to go along with the pink Prom Queen sash, sparkly tiara and beautiful bouquet of pink roses.

We recently interviewed the reigning queen about her new title, her family and whether or not she’s planning to get her kitchen sink fixed with one of those gift certificates included in her prize package (her friends are really hoping she does!).

She graciously sent us some pictures wearing — or showing off — all of her amazing prizes!

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Q: What went through your mind when you heard over the microphone: ”And the 2013 NWA Mom Prom Queen is … Marie Starr!”

When I heard my name I thought…Oh my gosh! Then I felt hands on my back pushing me towards the stage.

Q: Tell us about the ladies who came with you to the prom:

We commonly refer to ourselves as the ‘Housewives of Quailridge’.  We are mostly transplants to Bentonville and were lucky enough to end up in the same neighborhood.  While we are made up of different personalities, we are bonded by motherhood. We have literally shed blood, sweat and tears together. We have shared everything from medical crises’ and child care to celebrating birthdays and holidays together.

We have raised money to support each other’s causes and even conquered cancer (Well, Nicole beat it but we had her back!). We definitely try make each other’s mother load a little lighter :)

Q: What made you all want to attend?

Seriously, it is a PROM! We rarely pass up an excuse for a GNO but the fact that it was to benefit a great cause sealed the deal.

Q: How long did it take you to tear into your TWO gift baskets! What did you think of all the prizes?

I waited to open the gift baskets until Sunday. I knew my daughter would love it. Of course, she wanted everything! She wore me down and walked away with a few things.

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Q: OK, we have to know: Are you going to get your sink fixed with the handyman gift certificate? :)  

Ok so, this sink has become quite a joke around here.  It has been on my husband’s honey-do-list for many, many months.  So, yes, I am so excited to use that handyman GC to install a new faucet ASAP.

Q: You mentioned at the Mom Prom that your husband was crowned Prom King at his high school prom. What did he think of your new Prom Queen title?

My husband was out of town but was made aware fairly quickly through text messages from the girls. He thought it was a riot and called me to congratulate me when I got home.  He wanted to know the whole story.

Q: Tell us about your three kiddos:

These 3 are the contents of my heart! Where to begin…well, I had my 3 kids all in 3 years. I was seriously mother-overloaded for a few years!!

Evan, 12, is a 6th grade at Ardis Ann Middle School. He is sweet and loves basketball. Evan was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at age 5 and he is the reason we became involved in charities. JDRF is very near and dear to our hearts because their search for a cure.

Eden, 10, is a 4th grader at Elm Tree Elementary. Eden is a beautiful and caring little girl. She loves art and dancing.

Eli, 9, is a 3rd grader at Elm Tree Elementary. Eli was our little surprise! He is funny and passionate. Eli loves to tell stories and ride bikes.

Q: You mentioned that the kids immediately “de-throned” you. Ha! No special treatment for their queenly mama?

Oh no, there was no special treatment for this queen! I was awakened by complaints of a sore throat and a request for donuts. They absolutely refused to call me “your highness” and shut down my attempt to wear the tiara to Eli’s baseball game. I even explained that it was my public duty! Duh!

Q: Did you wear your crown on Mother’s Day? You can tell us!

I did. You simply cannot wear a “Prom Queen” sash without the tiara!

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A HUGE thank you to the following businesses for giving Marie the royal treatment!

Belk of Rogers

Spa Botanica at Embassy Suites NWA

Simple Spaces NWA

World Gym of NWA

Origami Owl, local representative Tammy Zelinski

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Northwest Arkansas Mall

Razorback Shop at the NWA Mall

Honda of Fayetteville

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How-To Video: Learn the Mom Prom Flash Mob Dance!

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As you know from status updates on our Mom Prom or Motherlode Facebook pages, a group of us got together last night to practice the NWA Mom Prom flash mob dance that we’ll be doing on Prom Night.

Kelsey Lee, a Zumba instructor at the Mercy YMCA at Village on the Creeks in Rogers, agreed to help us out and did an AWESOME job pairing  some Mom Prom Signature Moves with a mash-up of some great dance songs.

You know, all those moves you’ve perfected over the years as a mom? Yeah, Kelsey captured those in the dance :) Moves like pointing your finger at each of your kids and announcing, “You and you and you are in TIME OUT!”

And who doesn’t love those classic mama moves like “Drive the Minivan”“Rock the baby” and “Push the stroller”? It’s really easy to learn and — bonus! — Kelsey will be at the prom to lead us in the dance.

We’re sorry you didn’t get to boogie with us last night, but no worries! Below is the video we shot at rehearsal last night. You still have a few weeks to learn the dance, so get together with your girlfriends and practice as a group or freak out your kids by busting a move in the living room! Family exercise time!

We would love for you to join us on the dance floor when we hear the intro to “Ice, Ice Baby”. That’s our cue!

If you missed any of  the names of the dance moves, here’s the choreography that Kelsey put together:

Ice Ice Baby

When words start…

Time Out Both Sides (two times), Drive the Minivan, Honk the Horn, when it says, “dance” throw your right arm in the air

Push It

Walk in a Circle (“you know best”), Push the Stroller (start right), Rock the Baby, Shake the Rattles

Pump Up the Jam

Shake the Rattles, Dust the furniture (start right, middle, left, middle), Shake the Rattles, circle the booty (when it says “get your booty on the floor tonight”)

PYT (Pretty Young Thing)

Get the Groceries both sides (two times: start right) , Flash the Credit Cards Both Sides (six times: start right), Drive the Minivan, Raise the Roof (two times with Drive the Car in between)

Girls Just Want to Have Fun

Grapevine with shoulders (six times right, left) then swim arms back, when it says, “Girls they wanna have fun, oh”…then “Surf the Web”  (Pretend you’re on a surfboard)

Firework

Sweep the Floor (forward and back twice) start right foot, right arm

Wash the Windows (right and left twice)

Get Attention (Zumba Arms)

Sweep Right Arm Right and Left (like you are holding a sparkler)

Starburst (three right, slight pause, three left)

CHORUS: Get TEENAGERS ATTENTION (hop in place with right arm pumping in the air)

Starburst (three right, slight pause, three left)

Note from the mamas: If dancing in a Flash Mob is not your thing, don’t sweat it. You can just watch the rest of us and point and laugh. We guarantee it’ll be funny. See you Prom Night! CLICK HERE to buy tickets!

Best tips and tricks from NWA moms to help lose weight!

Spring is in the air and that means swimsuit weather isn’t far behind.

And that means we can’t help but think about slimming down or toning up. The mamas who read Motherlode offered some great advice on the topic in a recent giveaway for Fleet Feet.

Regardless of whether you want to lose weight, it’s still important to eat healthy food and move your body. If not for the swimsuit, for your sanity. Exercise and good fuel just make us feel better!

Here are a few comments that might just kick start your fitness routine (click here to read them all):

paleo dietTo stay fit (when I’m not pregnant) I follow the Paleo diet as much as possible and try to eat whole, unprocessed foods. I struggled losing all my weight after my first child but after switching to the Paleo diet, I was able to lose all my baby weight plus more! ~ Shea Nuckols

I can swear by not eating processed foods. Anything that comes in a box is off limits! ~ Shannon

I’m about to embark on a food intolerance elimination diet (ridding my body of 7 foods that are highly allergenic). My mother-in-law has already started and I will be joining her. I am SO looking forward to eating a diet of real, whole foods. Can’t wait to experience the feeling better and weightloss! ~ Lindsey Kendrick

I have to ALWAYS eat breakfast and portion control. Stay away from sweets and stay active. ~Chelsea Green

my fitness palMy best tool is an app on my smartphone that logs everything I eat. This has been an eye-opening experience as I had no idea how many calories I’ve been eating each day. It’s been difficult sticking to a plan in the past, but with logging my food intake, it’s been a lot easier! ~ Cheryl W.

I just try and eat heathy and to exercise at least every other day. I eat a lot of whole grains, fruits and veggies and lean meat. I don’t eat very much red meat. I think cardio and strength training are both equally important. ~ Brandi

Portion control is essential. Filling your plate with 75% veggies, fruits and salads with 25% low fat protein is also one of my strategies. I do at least 4 hrs of cardio/ aerobics/ weights each week and walk a minimum of 3 miles a day. Not only does this help physically, it is essential to a healthy mental attitude as well. ~ Debbie

zumba topI never thought that I would enter the world of Zumba, but I now live in it!! Zumba gives me the stress relief I need as well as an avenue to, as my husband says, “Burn some gristle.” I pair that with a small run a few times a week and I’m set! I look better now than I did on my wedding day and before I had two kids! ~ Jennifer

After my last pregnancy I downloaded the Nike Fit app, I love it. It was encouraging to track my runs. I am looking forward to getting back into the game this spring after this pregnancy.  ~ Jessica Alexander

I use the lose it app to log foods and exercise. I make fresh veggie juice in the juicer every morning and run 3-6 miles Monday-Saturday. ~ Christy

Reducing portion size and keeping a food journal as well as walking instead of driving whenever possible has really helped. ~ Lindsay

Oh!! Also, I started using an app called Gympact and it PAYS YOU to work out! You set a goal and each week, you earn MONEY!! ~ Cammi Hevener

I use a workout called TTapp. It’s a no impact “physical therapy” approach to fitness. And boy howdy does it work you out! :O) ~ Jan Dorothy

Body for Life is a good program to lose weight and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Plus you can take part in their contest for a chance to win $! ~ Alisha

fuel bandI work out regularly and I recently bought a Nike Fuel Band. I love it! It keeps track of steps taken, calories burned and Nike fuel points. It makes me strive to meet my daily goal. ~ Doris

I like dr Santos’s ABC diet it is a strict diet and I am a all or nothing type. You have your a list which is really strict it is basically cleansing you you stay on it for 3 wks then you add the B foods that is still clean but you have more of a verity and you stay on that till you hit your goal weight then you have your C list and you have to stay away from that list. I have lost 100 lbs on this diet and kept it off for a year now I am restarting it to finish losing the remaining weight. ~ Torie Leger

I have been low carbing but now am increasing my workout from wii step to the Biggest Loser Power walk every day. ~ Joyce

I’m a big fan of RunKeeper or other phone apps for tracking fitness. I like seeing my progress and feeling accountable. ~ Angie

ZUMBA!!!!! lots of water and plenty fruits and veggies! ~ Tricia

Pilates! It’s a great workout and the perfect way to ease back into working out post baby. On the days I don’t do pilates, I’ve been running/walking with the little one in his stroller. ~ Kayla

The best exercise strategy has been a workout partner/group. The accountability and social aspect of the support and motivation you provide each other is priceless! ~ Kim

chobaniI start my morning off with protein and eat yogurt with fresh fruit instead of sweets for dessert. This plus walking 3 days a week I have been able to lose more of the baby weight that stayed on after breastfeeding. ~ Brittney

Couple keys to success for me to consistently eat healthy and get/stay fit. Don’t try to do everything at once. Pick a routine and ease into it. Start with exercise 3 days/week and move up from there. Then foodwise, none of the crash/fast diets work for me. Committing to portion control and a balanced diet is best. Then letting yourself enjoy indulgent food in SMALL quantities is ok. Tracking my caloric intake works well too. Makes me rethink those french fries i’m craving. ~ Laura

Exercise first thing in the morning. You HAVE to make time for yourself (especially all the moms out there). In the morning, before anyone wakes up, sneaking off to the gym has been amazing for me. Not only do I get to have some alone time, I am also giving my body the workout it needs. ~ Amy Cash

Running! It is simple, free, and our city has an awesome trails system that makes it a safe hobby. Nothing makes me happier than a good run! ~ Angie

journalI’ve been running at least 2X a week and journaling everything I eat. It’s easy to underestimate the amount of food I eat on a daily basis, but journaling helps me keep track of it all. ~ Leah

The last couple months I have had the best weight loss experience of my life. I think it’s a combination of things:
1. Getting a FitBit and wearing it all day every day
2. Creating a salad bar at home and making my work lunches the night before (click here to read Stephanie’s post over at Evolved Mommy about how to create a home salad bar)
3. Setting a difficult but achievable running goal in January that kickstarted my exercise habit for the new year. ~ Stephanie, Evolved Mommy

Registering for a race and knowing that I have to run it really motivates me to workout. I know that the date is approaching and I have no choice but to train hard, so I can do well and finish the race strong! ~ Leah

Giveaway: You’re invited to the first annual NWA Mom Prom presented by nwaMotherlode!

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It’s Motherlode’s fifth birthday in May and we wanted to have a BIG party to celebrate this milestone. So the mamas decided a Mom Prom was the way to go! Why should the teenagers have all the fun?

This will be the MOTHER of all Girls’ Night Outs!

We’re going to get this party started early with a giveaway! The winner will receive a party pack of 5 MOM PROM TICKETS! That’s one for you and four of your best dancing buddies! (See below about how to win these tickets.)

disco-ballThe NWA Mom Prom is Saturday, May 4, at the Springdale Holiday Inn Ballroom. Save the date! We promise you will LOVE what we have planned for you at this inaugural prom.

Top 10 things you need to know about the NWA Mom Prom right now:

  • It’s a massive Girls’ Night Out. We want this to be a great time for women and moms 21 and older to get together and dance, eat, drink, talk, laugh, pose for pictures with their friends, relive some of their own glory days and make new memories with friends.
  • Ticket sales officially started today. Click here to visit. NWAMomProm.com and purchase one for yourself. You can also buy raffle tickets while you’re there!
  • It’s a Prom with a Purpose. Buying a ticket will support local charity The Cobblestone Project. In particular, the money will help parents living in poverty send their children to school in clean clothes Laundry Love logothrough the Laundry Love program.
  • There will be amazing.swag.bags. Expect fabulous goodies inside beautiful Thirty-One Gifts thermal totes.
  • Our sponsors rock. We have some generous sponsors who are making this happen. Thank you Great Day Farms, Metro Appliances & More, Hull Dermatology and Aesthetics, Lifestyle Dentistry, Mercy Health, Magic 107.9, KNWA,  Parachuting Penguins, Aspire Gymnastics Academy, Thirty-One Gifts and Dillard’s. We’re still accepting sponsors, so if you know a great company that would love to support local moms and The Cobblestone Project at an event for 300 women, tell them to email us at mamas{at}nwaMotherlode.com.
  • Dancing will happen. Be thinking about your favorite dance music because you’ll be helping us decide on the playlist for Prom Night!
  • You can attend the prom with Ryan Gosling. No men are allowed — except for gorgeous celebs! Cozy up to a life-size cardboard cutout of your favorite actor or singer. They’ll be lined up along the red carpet, waiting to get their picture taken with YOU. (Think Channing Tatum and George Clooney.)
  • Prizes galore. At the end of the night, we’ll crown a Prom Queen (chosen at random among ticket holders) and she’ll receive a huge prize package. Tears of real joy may be shed.

shoesHOW TO ENTER: If you’ love to win tickets to the first annual NWA Mom Prom, just click on the orange button below and tell us about a favorite memory from your own prom night — or tell us what you look forward to doing at the NWA Mom Prom! Dancing? Dressing up and walking the red carpet? Posing for pics with your favorite girlfriends?

HOW TO INCREASE YOUR ODDS: Help us spread the word about the giveaway and we’ll give you extra chances to win. Send an email to your friends about the giveaway and be sure to put giveaways@nwaMotherlode.com on the CC line of your note. We’ll give you an extra chance to win for every person you tell.

BE SOCIAL FOR MORE CHANCES TO WIN: Spread the word via social media and we’ll give you extra chances as well. Just share the giveaway with your friends on Facebook (click here to go see the post on our BRAND NEW MOM PROM Facebook page and share from there) or share about the giveaway on Twitter to increase your odds of winning. If you do either of these things, just let us know in your posted comment or send us an email so we can give you proper credit.

BUY PROM TICKETS NOW: If you want to secure your NWA Mom Prom tickets, click HERE to visit nwamomprom.com to order. Don’t forget: You can also buy tickets for the fabulous items that great day logowill be raffled away on prom night! Raffle tickets are only 1 dollar each.

We are so pumped about this event and can’t wait to reveal more info as plans roll along. We’ll keep you updated. In the meantime, buy a ticket and dust off your dancing shoes! This will be an amazing night! We also want to give a shout-out to our premier sponsor, Great Day Farms and these other awesome local companies that are helping to make this first NWA Mom Prom epic.

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Giveaway: $100 shopping spree at Rhea Lana’s!

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If you’ve lived in Northwest Arkansas for even a little while, we know you’ve heard about the semi-annual Rhea Lana Children’s Consignment Sale which offers great children’s essentials at excellent prices.

If you’re new to the area — or  Rhea Lana — it’s basically a HUGE sale where moms can find high quality children’s clothing, children’s furniture, nursery bedding, maternity clothing, nursing accessories, and infant equipment (such as strollers, high chairs, car seats and portable cribs) at consignment prices. They also sell super nice toys, children’s books, video games and sports accessories.

And guess what, mamas? We’re giving away a $100 gift card to shop the Rhea Lana Spring Sale! Think about how far that $100 will go at Rhea Lana’s great consignment prices! (Keep reading to find out how to throw your name in the hat for this giveaway!)

This year’s spring sale will be held in a 100,000 square-foot heated warehouse. That’s lots of of room to spread out the racks, furniture, equipment, toys and PLENTY of room to shop! It’s right off of I-540 and the Porter Road exit. There is also plenty of parking and admission is always free. (Click here to visit the Rhea Lana Facebook page where you’ll find sneak peeks of some of the merchandise and clothing that will be available at the sale!)

The Rhea Lana Spring 2013 Event:

  • March 3-9 (times vary)
  • 2075 N. Shiloh Dr.
  • Fayetteville

HOW TO ENTER: If you’re itching to win this $100 gift card to shop at the upcoming Rhea Lana Children’s Consignment Sale, just click on the orange button below and tell us about one of the most impressive deals you’ve ever snagged at a past Rhea Lana event or about something you’d love to find at the upcoming spring sale.

You can also email your answer to us at giveaways@nwaMotherlode.com. All giveaways winners are always chosen at random so anyone can win.

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ABOUT THE RHEA LANA CONSIGNMENT SALE This consignment sale has high quality children’s clothing, toys, sports equipment, furniture and more. (Click here to visit the website.)

The most popular name brand clothes you’ll find at the sale are Gymboree, Ralph Lauren, Hollister, American Eagle, Gap, Tommy Hilfiger, and Nike. The most popular boutique brands to look for are Baby Lulu, Baby Nay, Hanna Andersson, Zutano, Anavini smocked dresses, My Vintage Baby, and Cach Cach.

Rhea Lana’s most popular toys are Little Tikes outdoor playgrounds, Racing Car beds, Kitchens, Doll Houses, Tool Benches, Barbie Jeeps, Brio wooden train sets, and American Girl Dolls and accessories. They also carry beautiful nursery furniture and bedding, cradles, car seats, strollers, high chairs, exer-saucers and walkers.

HOW TO INCREASE YOUR ODDS: To increase your odds of winning the $100 gift card, email your friends and family to let them  know about this giveaway. Just be sure to put giveaways@nwaMotherlode.com on the CC line of your note so we can give you proper credit.

BE SOCIAL: Spread the word via social media and we’ll give you extra chances as well. Just share the giveaway with your friends on Facebook (click here to go see the post on our Facebook page and share from there) or share about the giveaway on Twitter to increase your odds of winning. If you do either of these things, just let us know in your posted comment or send us an email so we can give you proper credit.

Good luck and we’ll see you at the Rhea Lana’s Consignment Sale!

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