
“Do or do not… there is no try.” — Yoda
By Laurie Marshall
There’s been a lot of “try” going on at my house this year, without a lot of success.
I have been “trying” to lose weight and get in better shape. This was going pretty well up until about two months ago when, for no reason I can put my finger on, I quit going to the gym and let some of my new eating rules slide.
My husband has been “trying” to get his boxes of keepsakes and stuff organized and off the floor of our bedroom. This may not sound like
something that should take up a lot of time, but believe me when I say this project has been dragging on for moooooonnthhs…
I have “tried” to make meal plans each week. I think I did it twice. That means I didn’t do it 50 times.
I have “tried” to be a better doggie mom. I did get our guy in to the vet more regularly and provided him with fun and frolic at a doggie daycare when we were out of town, but daily walks and a fenced in play yard still haven’t happened. This has been very difficult because I’m the only person in my household who has this on their priority list. Can I get an “AMEN!!” on things that mom thinks are important that are not important to anyone else???
I have “tried” to find more time to write. This is just laughable.
My daughter has “tried” to get her one unfinished final exam done to get her high school diploma. I frequently suspect her idea of trying and mine are solar systems apart.
Obviously, I need to be more like Yoda. There is no room in my busy life for making a lot of lists and hoping and wishing and being determined… I just have to make things happen that need to happen. I do it with the daily living stuff – laundry, meals, picking up the constant messes in our living spaces, replacing the toilet paper (why does no one else in my house think this needs be done???) – but the “extras” tend to be pushed off the page in my head when I just have too much clutter taking up space in my life.
The irony is that if I de-clutter my life, there will be more space for the extras like working out and planning meals… but as you can all probably understand, it’s that life de-cluttering that is the most difficult kind. Cleaning out that junk drawer in the kitchen has nothing on cleaning out the junk drawer in my head and my daily schedule.
2011 starts tomorrow. Like every January 1st that has ever come around, the day is nothing special by itself. But it carries with it a brand new date designation that makes it perfect for Making Big Changes. I’ve already rejoined the online version of Weight Watchers, and will be creating a spreadsheet on my iPad to help me plan meals. I will also sign up for a Zumba class and work out at least two more times each week, and I will take our dog for a walk/run every evening before he goes in his crate and I go in my jammies.
I hope you are all making lists that inspire and challenge you but that are truly DO-able. Aside from the big hairy ears and green wrinkly skin – I am planning to will be more like Yoda in 2011!
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Purchase a plastic caddy with a handle for all of your cleaning supplies. Rather than having cleaners scattered in cabinets throughout the house, put all necessary cleaners in the caddy to carry from room to room when cleaning day comes around.





Every year has its fads, right? Lots of mothers will remember this year’s fad as the famous Silly Bandz craze. The multi-colored rubber bracelets even showed up on celebrity wrists including
Lots of celebrities and their spouses welcomed new babies in 2010. Here are some of the blessed celebs with new babies to love: 








the soldiers who was sitting atop a tank reached in his duffel bag and pulled out an orange. (Oma told me it had been ages since she had seen an orange, and this one looked to her like it was the size of a basketball.) The soldier tossed the beautiful piece of fruit to the little girl, and Oma caught it—even though her mother had warned her to never take anything from the Americans (because it might be poisoned).
soldiers gave them came in little green cans, like the one you see here. There were tins of crackers, jam, cheese, peanut butter, and Spam. I remarked to Oma that this must have seemed like a feast, like Christmas. Oma offered a very insightful statement: “Oh no. It was much better than Christmas.”
Dr. John L. Cash is the “Country Preacher Dad.” He was raised in Stuttgart, Arkansas, and has spent the last 25 years being a country preacher in the piney woods five miles south of the little town of Hickory, Mississippi. (On week days he works at a public school.) He and his lovely wife, Susan, and his sons, Spencer (age 19) and Seth (age 16) live in the parsonage next door to the Antioch Christian Church (where the Preacher drank a carton of eggnog made by the “Silk” soymilk company last month because he is lactose intolerant.) He would love to hear from you in an email sent to jcash@scott.k12.ms.us.
breeze hits it. The only sounds I’ve heard so far are the fluttering of a Mickey Mouse flag that’s flying high above the deck. And a little earlier a friendly waiter stopped by to ask if I’d like to try the “drink of the day”, complete with a tiny umbrella and slice of orange perched on the side. “Why, yes I would like to try it,” I said. I could TOTALLY get used to this.
different cruise lines, but the basic premise is the same: Parents check their kiddos into a kids-only area, which is supervised by several enthusiastic staff members who are paid to not only keep your kids safe but also to entertain them with fun activities and games. Genius idea, isn’t it?


your family lives within a 50-mile radius, it’s not such a terrible thing, however, when your family lives 4 hours away in another state, serious problems can arise.
new discovery, but he will be 7 when Jay returns. Sure, there will still be fun to have but there’s just something about the twinkle in a child’s eyes the first couple of times he or she experiences the magic of Christmas before society begins to creep in and erase the mystery of Santa Clause!
bless you and yours now and for the years to come!




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