Beauty Buzz: New trend in facial products

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You may have noticed a new trend in the beauty aisle lately. It seems our girly, pink and white cleansers are being replaced with much scarier dark gray or black formulas. Um, these do not look clean. They are intimidating and new and have serious benefits if you can get by the weirdness.

african black soapThe first of these products to catch my attention is African Black Soap, a bar soap primarily made in Africa. According to Treehugger, it’s made from the ashes of locally harvested plants and barks such as plantain, cocoa pods, palm tree leaves, and Shea tree bark. The mixture is then boiled and additional oils and Shea butter are added to create the secret recipe. My husband has been testing out the bar soap and lotion and has seen much improvement with his sensitive skin. The affordable soap, only $4.50 at Walmart, exfoliates and moisturizes gently yet effectively. Two warnings: some people have reported that your skin will get worse for about a week before it gets better (this was not the case with my hubby), and I recommend getting a little travel soap holder for it because the dried black suds dripping down your shower wall can look a little terrifying. Just ask my traumatized 5-year-old.

The charcoal infused product that caught my attention was the Biore Charcoal Pore Minimizer. Apparently, charcoal attracts dirt and oil and essentially sucks it out of your pores which leads to visibly smaller pores. I have no idea if this is technically what is happening, but with the addition of microcrystals for exfoliating, I have noticed that my skin feels smoother and have not had any breakouts. Biore also has added Deep Cleansing Charcoal Pore strips that are very similar to the classic pore strips we all love, except that they are now black and the charcoal should enhance the product’s effectiveness.

elizavecca milky piggy carbonated bubble clay maskProbably the most unusual product of all is the Elizavecca Milky Piggy Carbonated Bubble Clay Mask.  It’s goopy, muddy gray texture takes some getting used to but feels wonderful once it starts to wor. The Korean made mask begins to fizz and bubble up, cleaning deep into your pores. Available through Amazon, the packaging is all written in Korean so I had to google instructions, but you basically smear a decent layer over your skin and wait about five minutes as it reacts. I forced another dance mom to try it with me in the church bathroom and we couldn’t stop laughing at the tickly sensation or jumping a mile and staring at the door every time someone walked in. Thank you, Sherry, for humiliating yourself for me. Embarrassment loves company!

One thing we learned is that it’s very hard to wash away completely using just the sink and a towel, so now I apply the mask while my shower heats up and then rinse under the running water. I got gobs of it in my baby hairs the first time….and then had to sit through a four hour dress rehearsal. I’m smart. A little side note: the link I provided is a combo offer with the Elizavecca Green Piggy Collagen Jella Pack. It is the grossest-feeling lotion I have ever seen and is like “the blob” as it morphs back to its original shape every time…I Loved It!!!! My skin looked so smooth after using it, and it has a ton of collagen in it for skin firming. Sadly, after scouring the Internet for ingredients in English, I discovered it contains propylene glycol, which I’m allergic to, but I loved it so much I still wanted to share.

So, come to the dark side with me and explore these new shady products. Tap back into your goth phase because black lipstick and JNCOs (Lord, help the children) are making a comeback, people!

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Beauty Buzz: Three popular beauty treatments compared to childbirth

By Andi Douglas, nwaMotherlode beauty buzz editor and mama of 3

glamour girlHappy Mother’s Day, Mamas! I hope you all had a wonderfully relaxing day, or a relaxing 15 minutes, at least, if you still have little ones at home.

I received a brand new coffee maker because everyone knows keeping mommy well caffeinated is money well spent.

As I was reflecting back on the days when I became a mommy three times over, one thought kept running through my mind, “Dang, that really hurt.”

So on that note, here are a few popular beauty treatments that hurt almost as much as *childbirth {and are almost as rewarding}:

1. Microblading is a semi-permanent treatment for reshaping, repairing or filling in sparse eyebrows. Different than permanent eyebrow tattoos, microblading lasts up to three years with just an annual touch-up, and has a much more natural look.

During the two-hour process, the technician will use a special microblade (kind of like a tiny exacto knife) that deposits color close to the surface of your skin leaving fine and crisp hair strokes, as opposed to the broader strokes of a traditional tattoo needle. At $300 and up, it may seem a bit extravagant, but the closest alternative would be eyebrow extensions that can cost around $200 and have to be maintained regularly.

I have seen countless before-and-after pictures and they look amazing! I have not seen it in person, but in photos you can not tell it’s not real hair.

* A topical numbing cream should decrease the amount of pain, so on a childbirth scale, I’d say it’s about equal to delivering with an epidural; you know what’s going on but it’s all good.

lip color2. Permanent makeup, or cosmetic tattooing (ranging from $300-$1000), can be very beneficial for minimizing your daily routine or as an alternative for people with allergies to cosmetics.

Because of the delicate nature of the tattoo, the pigmentation is deposited close to the surface of the skin so it can fade over time, but is still considered permanent because it can not be removed easily. So, be sure it is what you want.

Lip, eye, and eyebrow tattooing are the most common applications, but the technique can be used to cover scars or redefine facial features. A friend of mine recently had her eyeliner tattooed on both the upper and lower lash lines with a very fine line that helps define her eyes. She loves it and has no regrets, but did warn that it hurt A LOT. Her appointment definitely would have a language warning if televised.

* I’d say it’s like the first time you have to poop after having a baby: the fear is the worst part, it seems to take forever, but a huge relief when you’re done.

3. In relation to talk about waxing, you may picture eyebrows or even the extensive leg area, but for the purposes of this article, I’m going to focus on the big kahuna, a Brazilian wax.

For around $60 you can have a stranger clear out your bikini area…all of it…seriously…yeah there’s hair back there, too.  Now the good news is, the more frequently you get waxed, the less it hurts and the less your hair will actually grow back.

I like to think you have scared it into submission. Since I am not a character on Sex in the City, I’m going to go ahead and leave it at that.

* But I can rank this beauty treatment on my super scientific scale as having a baby in the car on the side of the highway: You just close your eyes, grit your teeth and try not to think about who’s seeing what. At least it will be over fast.

Okay, ladies, if you are woman enough to try one of these techniques, just remember your Lamaze breathing and look forward to that happy time afterwards when you totally forget how awful it was and decide to give it another go.

It took me about a year after each kid; hopefully I won’t wait as long between waxing.

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Beauty Buzz: DIY dry shampoo, makeup brush cleaner & face exfoliator

By Andi Douglas, beauty editor and mama of 3

EARTH DAY!!!! I’d been saving these ideas for an Earth Day post all year and then I messed around and missed it.

Oh well! These tips are good for any day!

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Seriously, it all fit into this mason jar

There are so many ways to DIY your favorite beauty products now, which is a great way to not only save money but cut down on your own personal waste. If you aren’t feeling motivated, feel shamed by this article about a young woman who can fit all of her trash from the last few years in one mason jar (pictured). It worked on me!

And just think of all the pretty jars lined up on your vanity instead of a basket of half-full aerosol cans.

Dry shampoo is a busy mom’s life preserver, especially in the spring when baseball overlaps with soccer which overlaps with dance, and testing…*sobs quietly into dayplanner*

Well, let’s be honest, dry shampoo and baby wipes. But, I find the spray formulas to be too heavy for my hair and way too easy to overdo, causing flaky scalp and heavy locks.

This easy, brush-on powder by Top Knot is a perfect alternative:

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Via Top Knot

For Lighter Hair:

  • ¼ cup Cornstarch
  • ¼ cup Baking Soda
  • ¼ tsp Essential Oil (optional)

For Darker Hair:

  • ¼ cup Cornstarch
  • ¼ cup Unsweetened Cocoa Powder
  • ¼ tsp Essential Oil (optional)

Just shake the ingredients well in a jar and apply it to your roots using a powder brush. You can either brush your hair to distribute or flip your head over and blow dry on cool for a few seconds.

Now that you’ve freed up so much time by not washing your hair, you can tend to some of those little chores that usually get bumped to the end of the line, like cleaning your makeup brushes. You can buy brush cleanser but that means you would have to leave the home section of Target and make it over to Beauty, without getting distracted by that little section of outdoor stuff by the books, and that’s never going to happen.

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Via At Home with Kristyn Cole

With just two ingredients you can DIY a cleanser that is just as effective, according to blogger Kristyn Cole. First, fill a bowl with ½ cup warm water, then add one tablespoon of olive oil and Dawn dish soap. Starting with your smaller brushes, swirl them gently on the bottom of the bowl, then rinse under running water until it runs clear.

I had trouble telling with my dark sink, so I squeezed them out over a white cup. Make sure you dry your brushes bristles down or the water will seep into the wooden handle causing the bristles to fall out.

Now that it’s finally starting to warm up and feel like Spring (real spring, not the one we had this winter) this fruity face mask concocted at Beauty Editor is calling my name. The natural alpha-hydroxy acids found in a peach exfoliate can cleanse your skin:

Blend ½ a ripe, mashed peach with 1 egg white. A little water may be needed to help with the blending. Apply to your skin and leave it for 20 minutes before washing off. 

I love a good DIY and a way to use all of those tiny candle jars that I can’t bring myself to throw away. I’m not saying I’m going to turn totally “hippie” but I can guarantee that I’m neither washing my hair nor shaving my legs today, so there’s that. It’s water conservation, so it’s cool.

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Beauty Buzz: Swimsuit season meets CoolSculpting technology

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This sponsored post by Andi Douglas, beauty editor at and mama of 3

Okay, so you know you have a good friend when you start a phone conversation with, “I just learned about the coolest new treatment at Revive Spa that gets rid of your fat pockets and I thought of you,” and she doesn’t hang up on your blunt a*s.

Revive coolsculpting adBut I promise, I was not being rude and truly thought she could benefit from CoolSculpting at Revive Medical Spa. The website offers good information and a couple of interesting videos explaining the process but, if you’re like me, web info doesn’t always absorb.

So I went in to get a better idea of what a “360° consultation” entails.

I questioned that poor girl until she probably wanted to stick the suction thing on my mouth but hopefully I covered all of the Q’s you might not think to ask yourself. So settle in because I got a lot of A’s.

Q: What do I wear?

Anything you want for the consultation and treatment. Out of all of my trips to Revive (remember my massage and facial experiences) I was the least naked at my CoolSculpting consultation, so Yay! You are shown to a private room, much like a massage suite and will don the world’s most unflattering paper shorts.

I promise, I had every intention of taking a picture for you guys but forgot. And considering I was wearing striped knee highs I got at the dollar store right before because I couldn’t find socks without holes in them, it would have been a doozy. You will just have to trust me, they are comically billowy but still better than standing around in your skivvies. You can leave your shirt on and just lift it up if you are interested in treating your abs. This should give you an idea of just how much you have to shave.

Q: What happens during the consultation?

Once you have changed, the technician will ask you to stand in front of a mirror with your feet spread slightly (there is a small hexagon on the ground to guide your placement). I wanted the full experience so I had her check all of the areas available for treatment (except the chin).

That is the abdominals, love handles or flanks, and the outer and inner thigh. For my stomach and sides, I lifted my shirt while she squeezed my skin together looking for specific fat pockets to treat and using a plastic u-shaped guide to see what tool would fit best. It is a little uncomfortable but is fast. For my thighs, I lifted the shorts up one leg at a time so she examine the area. Overall, not too bad. The worst part was the full length mirror you stand in front of during the process.

Q: So what areas are an option again?

Under your chin, upper abs, lower abs, flanks on the side and lower back, inner thigh and lower thigh, if you are eligible.

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Q: What happens during the treatments?

I have not gone through the treatments myself, but I asked as many questions as a I could. You will lay on a table, much like a facial or massage table, and expose only the area being treated (ie: rolling up your shirt for your abs).

coolsculptingOnce you are settled, the technician will place a suction device, like the one pictured, to the target zone and turn on the portable unit. This is the suction cup used for abdomens. There is a tiny version for under your chin and a larger, flatter version for your thighs.

The CoolSculpting machine sucks the pocket of fat away from your body and begins cooling it. Until you become numb from the cold the tugging sensation can be uncomfortable but will eventually subside. The freezing process kills the fat cells and breaks down the fatty pockets.

Because Revive had two CoolSculpting machines, they can treat two zones at a time and each cycle takes about an hour. So, if I was to have my side and back flanks done (awful word, now you know why we call them love handles), that would be four zones, right side, left side, right back, left back, and would take around 2 hours.

They will soon have a television to watch or you can bring a book or listen to music, whatever you do to relax. You do need to have each zone done twice, so two days of treatments about a month apart.

Q: That seems like a long time. Will there be pee breaks?

Yes, you and your bladder will be very comfortable.

Q: Who is a good candidate for CoolSculpting?

The ideal candidate is a man or woman within 20 lbs of your target weight. CoolSculpting is not as invasive as liposuction or other fat removal procedures and targets the small areas of fat that you just can’t seem to shake with diet and exercise. That is what made me think of my friend. She is an avid runner with 3 kids who eats healthy but is always concerned with the little fat pooch on her lower abdominals. This is perfect for that.

Q: Who is not a good candidate?

A lot of people have the potential, but if you do not change unhealthy eating habits or exercise regularly, new fat pockets can reform. Also, some people just aren’t built right for the machine to be effective.

I, for example, am not eligible for the leg treatments. For the machine to properly attach, the fat on your thighs need to form a point and mine were too flat. Huge, but flat. If I were to proceed with the treatment, I could end up with indentations or pitting.

So, if you visit another facility and they say you are not ideal but they can do it anyway, put your pants on and get out of there.

Don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t work out for you, just be glad you found an honest tech and then join me in a 30 Day Squat Challenge.  Also, pregnant and nursing women would be a no-no because of the physical stress on your body and people who suffer from hernias.

Q: What is the turnaround time?

The actual recovery time is minimal. You can be back to your normal routine the next day but will want to wear compression garments the first couple of weeks when exercising.

There will be some redness and if you are prone to busted capillaries or bruise(like if you had hickies all the time in high school), you may see that but it dissipates in a normal amount of time.

Q: How soon will I see results?

This is not an instant fix. If you have your two treatments one month apart from each other, you will see results in two months, which is pretty quick. But, if you have a reunion or vacation next week and want to slim up fast, this is not the way. CoolSculpting will actually cause bloating the first few weeks. So plan ahead or you’ll be stuck with Spanx.

Here’s a video with more info about CoolSculpting (click here to visit Revive’s website to see more CoolSculpting videos):

Q: Will CoolSculpting reduce cellulite?

Big sad face on this one, but no. Cellulite is actually a fibrous band that pulls down on your skin, so killing the fat around it does not minimize the appearance. The tech has pictures she can show you but it’s something you can’t unsee, so you might want to trust me on this one.

Q: Is this a good alternative to a tummy tuck?

A tummy tuck is often recommended to reduce excess skin caused by extreme weight loss or pregnancy. CoolSculpting targets just the fat, so it will not help reduce excess skin, sorry.

Q: Can I have my arms and upper back done to reduce back cleavage?

Not yet. They are working on developing different size cups to potentially treat those areas but nothing has been approved yet. Once again, if you visit someplace that says they can, know that they are not following proper regulations.

revive medical spaQ: Will a c-section scar inhibit my treatment?

Because this is a noninvasive procedure, previous scarring should not affect it, as long as it has been more than a year or cleared by your surgeon.

Q: Is CoolSculpting a permanent solution?

Essentially, yes! Once the fat pockets have been frozen and dissipate they are gone for ever. But, new fat cells can form if you don’t follow a healthy diet. That is why this treatment is ideal for people who have made a life change and are committed to it. So, not me, yet…but I’m working on it.

Q: How much does it cost?

This is of course a rough estimate just to give you an idea, but each zone costs approximately $750. So, my flanks would be four zones that need to be treated twice. There is a significant price reduction for multiple zones and cycles if paid all at once and they do work with a financing company if needed. I am the world’s cheapest person, but since this is a one-and-done treatment, even I am psyched about the potential.

I think I covered quite a bit, but if I missed anything let me know. I will be happy to ask any ridiculous or embarrassing questions you have. That’s the beauty of journalism…it is the ideal “I’m asking for a friend” cover. Very freeing. Or book a free consultation yourself. It’s great, you get to model some sassy shorts and there are mints up front. You can’t go wrong. Have a good one, Mamas!!!!

Click here to visit Revive Medical Spa’s website — and to get more details about CoolSculpting. Note from the mamas: Andi was invited to write about Revive’s free CoolSculpting consultation for this sponsored post on nwaMotherlode.

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Beauty Buzz: Simple ways to rescue old or damaged makeup

MakeUp911colorful (3)By Andi Douglas, nwaMotherlode beauty editor

We all have a dusty old makeup bag stashed in the back of our bathroom cabinet filled with ill-fated expensive makeup that has cracked, melted or dried up before its time…it was so young and beautiful! Such a tragedy you can’t stand to throw it away.

Until recently, I considered those products lost for good. Thankfully, the geniuses on the Internet (and I don’t mean that sarcastically this time) have opened my eyes to shelf-life saving techniques for your traumatized goods.

Melted lipstick is probably the most common and easily corrected mishap. If it’s still contained in the tube, but can’t be rolled up, you can simply use a lipstick brush for application, which can be a hassle, but you will actually end up with a prettier lip in the end. Most makeup artists recommend using a brush, anyway. If your lipstick has broken off at the base, but is otherwise in good shape, use a match to melt the end, very carefully, and reattach it to the base. Put it in the fridge for at least and hour and a half to secure it.

Cracked blush is one of the most aggravating of make-up injuries, partly because it always seems to happen in the car, and partly because it sometimes happens without provocation. You can undo any breakage with isopropyl alcohol (rubbing alcohol), a trick I saw on Pinterest via Katrina Lomidze. You simply put a few drops of alcohol into the powder and let it soak in. Then, using the back of a spoon for a smooth finish, “schmoosh” the powder back into shape. Let it sit out overnight; the alcohol will evaporate and leave you with a beautiful, usable compact. This will work on any powder makeup, btw.

I’ve always suspected that when my mascara starts flaking and I send it sailing into the trashcan, that there is actually a secret reserve of unused mascara inside the opaque tube. I wish they’d put a little viewing window on the side like a ballpoint pen, but alas, I have to just guess how much is still in there. Well, no more! Add 4-5 drops of saline solution to the tube; insert your wand a stir. Voila! Fresh mascara! This can be repeated until it’s empty, but remember to always toss mascara after an eye infection.

Maybe you just have a powder shadow or blush that you loved in the store, but hated at home and never took the time to return (been there, done that a thousand times over). Try crushing it up and mixing it with some clear nail polish to create a custom mani…so chic, so cool!

So, there’s a little make-up 911 for you. Do you have any DIY tips for reviving beauty products? Click on the comment button below and share them with the rest of us!

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Note: This post originally published on nwaMotherlode in April 2014.

*Photo via Elefanterosado via Flickr

Beauty Buzz: Makeup tips for when you want to wear your glasses

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By Andi Douglas, mama of 3 and beauty editor of nwaMotherlode

You know you’re a mom of elementary-aged kids when your inspiration comes from an outbreak of pinkeye.

I received the dreaded call from the nurse at 8:30 Friday morning. Of course, it was party day and, as homeroom mom, I was in charge of the the festivities and this left me scrambling. It’s also how I ended up with a “stained glass” Valentine’s Day window to cheer up a 6-year-old who was “feeling really sad about missing her party” and is a master manipulator (see the sad girl pictured above).

Anywho, this all led to me suffering from psychosomatic pink eye and not wanting to wear my contacts. Hence, the inspiration: Makeup tips for when you want to wear your glasses! Although I tend to only wear glasses by necessity, thick frame spectacles are very on trend right now.

Here are a few tips to make your eyes (all four of them) look their best:

1. My biggest glasses woe is the smears I get when my lashes hit the lens, and I don’t even have long lashes like some of you. Lengthening mascara only will add to this problem, so try a thickening or volumizing mascara instead.

If you are a frequent glasses wearer, eyelash tinting can give you the look of mascara without the hassle, but spend the extra money and go to a trained esthetician for the treatment. Curling your eyelashes away from your eyes will make your eyes appear more open, as well as minimizing any lash to lens collisions.

eye shadow2. One reason you might not feel your best when wearing glasses are the dark shadows created by the frames themselves. Uh, I have enough shadows under my eyes without extra help, thank you very much.

3. Brighten your lids with a universally-flattering, champagne-colored eyeshadow, like the long wearing Colorstay Eye Shadow in Champagne by Revlon ($4.29).

4. Don’t skip your under eye concealer, even if it seems like that area will be covered by your frames. A light reflecting concealer, like YSL Touche Eclat will conceal and brighten to counteract the pesky shadows.

5. Don’t neglect your eye liner either. Think how expensive and dynamic a picture looks when it is double framed. If you are nearsighted and your lenses make your eyes look smaller, try lining both the top and bottom lash line with dark brown or black liner for an eye popping effect. If you are farsighted and lenses make your eyes look giant, try a light brown or white eyeliner to define your eyes without being too bold.

6. Of course, none of this matters unless you have the right lenses for your face. Choosing new glasses can be the most exciting and terrifying decision you make. They are expensive and a pain to replace and you have to see them anytime you look in the mirror.

A few tips for picking just the right frames:

  • If you have a strong prescription, the smaller the frame the thinner your lenses will appear at the edge, since lenses gain width as the curve outward. Sadly, that means the giant hipster glasses that look so cute on your friend will probably make you look like Urkel. This is advice I really, really wish I had in the fourth grade when I had bifocals that covered half my face. The good news is the giant butterflies on the side probably distracted from my coke bottle lenses.
  • Make sure your eyes are centered in each lens and that they do not fall too far below your eyebrows.
  • Pick frames that contrast your face shape. For example: If you have a round face, choose square or cat-eye frames. I found a great guide to face shape in regards to glasses at All About Vision.

I am seriously jonesing for a new pair of glasses now. I’m also having major awkward-phase PTSD as I remember the array of horrific glasses I have worn in the past. Thanks for that, Mom! I don’t care how much I wanted them, you should not have let me get pink glasses with metal butterflies…

Andi, 150Andi Douglas is a mama of three and loves to play with makeup and other beauty supplies. She likes to try new products and services in the name of beauty editor here at nwaMotherlode.

Beauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”


Beauty Buzz: Best self-tanning products to give you that summer glow in winter

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By Andi Douglas, beauty editor and mama of 3

I have officially lost the very last touch of my summer tan.

Of course, I wore sunscreen everyday and I would never lay out while my kids are swimming and I am extremely grateful my nose doesn’t grow when I lie. I do lather up my kids like crazy and gush over my little redhead’s porcelain skin so that my kids never feel the need to bake themselves, promise.

Unfortunately, I grew up as the only fair skinned child in a family of olive complexioned beauties and the “healthy tan” idea is really hard to shake. Thanks to bronzer and cardigans, I hadn’t noticed just how pasty my skin had gotten until the heat wave this weekend when I dared to wear a tank top and got a good look at my dayglow arms.

Since I am at least disciplined enough to stay away from tanning beds, that means it is time to find the best self-tanner out there.

We ’90s kids know the struggle of making that transition from lathering ourselves in baby oil to using orange-tinted lotions when we all realized that using actual radiation wasn’t the healthiest way to get a glow.

But at-home products have come a long way since then and there are a lot of options available now:

St. Tropez in Shower Gradual Tan is a little pricey at $25 (Ulta) but the convenience of applying it in the shower and being able to rinse 3 minutes later with no messy residue makes it worth it. One reviewer did notice that self-tanner smell later in the day and advised making sure you rinse completely to avoid dark spots, but otherwise reviews have been top notch for the product.

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You probably remember when Jergens Natural Glow Lotion made its debut and there is a reason it is still around and consistently on Best Of lists. The daily moisturizer works gradually for a natural glow and is available in two different shades at a reasonable $8.50 at Target. Its newest formulas has also eliminated that DHA stink that seems to be the biggest complaint about self-tanners.

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If you have had a spray tan before and loved the result you may like L’oreal Sublime Bronze Pro Perfect Salon Airbrush Self Tanning Mist. It’s a mouthful, but at $11, definitely cheaper than a spray tan by a real pro and worth a shot. The ability to spray it on without rubbing will eliminate the dreaded orange palms.

For the moms out there who like to DIY your own sunscreen and want to avoid chemicals, Nature’s Gate Glow Lotion ($9, Walgreens) is free of parabens, phthalates, and petroleum, while still being highly moisturizing and providing a tropical glow.


The real skill behind self-tanner application comes with lots of practice and some good prep work:

Shave before a applying (this seems like a given but just in case) and exfoliate like crazy. A homemade sugar scrub applied in the shower should do the trick unless you have some really tough spots, like the elbows. If that is the case, for a few days prior use a petroleum based product on your scaly bits and let it sit.

Last piece of advice, if your friends say you are starting to look a little orange, it means you are looking a lot orange and you need to step away from the bottle or explore some other brands. Just like with makeup not every tint suits everyone’s skin tone and it might take a little exploring.

Hopefully, the winter doldrums will get me in the habit of maintaining a sun free glow and I won’t be so tempted when summer roles around. This nice weather has me all optimistic! (AndI refuse to acknowledge it’s about to end.)

Andi, 150Andi Douglas is a mama of three and loves to play with makeup and other beauty supplies. She likes to try new products and services in the name of beauty editor here at nwaMotherlode.

Beauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”


Beauty Buzz: New year, new ‘do!

By Andi Douglas, beauty editor and mama of 3

Recently, I came across a Pin entitled “Not New Year, New You, but New Year, New Do! and I thought: What a fun, positive way to jump-start your New Year’s resolutions.

Unfortunately, the Pin led to a slideshow of the most ridiculous, unwearable hairstyles I’ve seen outside of New York Fashion Week.

But I still love the concept and wanted to encourage everyone to mix it up as we enter 2016. Nothing gives you more confidence than a great haircut, and confidence gives you energy; energy you can parlay into one of your other resolutions that have, honestly, been on your list since 2006.

Cut your hair, girl!

If that seems intense it’s because I am trying to convince myself. I have had really long hair for a few years now. People comment on it, ask if I have extensions, bemoan their inability to grow long hair, want to play with it (okay, that’s a 6-year-old, but still).

So, I think I can’t cut it…what a waste! But I am bored to death with the hour and a half process of drying, straightening, curling and then ending up with the same freaking style day after day.

The super-popular, ain’t goin’ nowhere “lob”, or the long bob, is a great way to maintain some length while removing a lot of bulk (ie: drying time). Like a traditional bob, a lob is cut slightly shorter in the back than the front to allow for more swing but is usually shoulder length or longer so you can still add plenty of long layers.

Megan Fox’s transformative chop is my current inspiration, you know, since we are basically twins. Don’t you love it:

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There is nothing more chic or confident than a pixie hair cut. I loooove them. Can’t do it myself because I’m a big chicken but develop major girl crushes on anyone who can pull it off. Get one of the many apps available for “trying on” a hairstyle and experiment a little. My dad got us one of these programs for the computer once and I remember putting in an actual disc and scanning in a photo.

When we put my mom’s hairstyle on my sister we all screamed because they looked identical and that’s the last time we used it. But I digress; remember, hair grows…nothing is permanent, so go for it.

If you have gone short before and are stuck in that crappy in-between stage, take a page from Kaley Cuoco’s book, as described in this Glamour article, and regularly trim the back until the front has a chance to catch up…No mullets, please. Also, adding texture will help camouflage and wonky layers.

If you are happy with your length or still waiting for it to grow, nothing makes an instant impact like a new color. I have done everything from dark brunette to blonde, to the dreaded 90s streaks and even a brief period where my hair was hot pink and my mom made me wear a hat when I was home.

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“Bronde” girl

I have finally landed on the flattering and easy to maintain “bronde”, a combo of brown and blonde (clever). Basically, this is achieved with golden highlights over my naturally brown hair. I think it is a cousin of what we used to call “dirty blonde” but has a much better ring to it.

Bronde gives the brightness that is so appealing in blonde highlights but without the headache of drastic roots.

I can not stop staring at people with multicolored, alternatively hued, rainbow (whatever you want to call it) hair.

To the woman at preschool drop off with purple hair: I am so sorry for ogling you. I think your hair is beautiful and have always, always wanted blue or purple hair. It does not fit my life style, my upbringing, my husband…it will never happen so I resign myself to hair envy voyeurism.

I am inching my way toward a couple of modestly placed colored extensions which are a great alternative for anyone looking to dip their toe into the rainbow colored hair fad. Because of their popularity, most salons have them available or you can buy your own at stores like Sally Beauty Supply.

If you decide to go for it and dye your hair, be warned. Dark hair will not show the color without bleaching it first, and that can damage your hair and you would have to wait several weeks before correcting it, if you choose.

For the blondes, it will show for sure, but even a temporary color will be with you for a very long time. I once used colored hair spray for a party and it clung to my blonde highlights for almost a month.

I am going to leave you with one surefire, confidence-building New Year’s resolution: compliment a stranger every day. I didn’t say it would build your confidence necessarily, but I bet by making someone else feel good, you will start to smile a little more and nothing is more beautiful than a genuine smile.

Andi, 150Andi Douglas is a mama of three and loves to play with makeup and other beauty supplies. She likes to try new products and services in the name of beauty editor here at nwaMotherlode.

Beauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”


Beauty Buzz: Eyebrow tattooing, tinting and great brow products

Beauty Buzz category bannerBy Andi Douglas, beauty editor and mama of 3

For some reason, lately, I have had several in-depth conversations about eyebrows and I’ve realized this is something I am weirdly passionate about. I didn’t start waxing until my 20′s and was shocked by the difference it made in my overall appearance. There’s a reason eyebrow shaping is called a ten-minute face-lift. When done properly, it can raise your brow so your eyes look more open and youthful.

One discussion I had was about eyebrow tattooing. Because trends change in brow shape as much as anything else, this scares the bejeezus out of me, and I’ve always been firmly in the “no-tattooed-makeup” camp. However, I saw an article about eyebrow tattooing and thought maybe it’s not all bad. Of course, we don’t all have access to a tattoo artist to the stars, so be careful when making a choice. Find someone you trust with a huge portfolio of past work. They should be willing to give references and not just pictures because photos can’t always be trusted. It’s even better if you know someone personally that has used their services and can tell you about their past experience. Stay as close to your natural brow shape as possible and stay away from any shape that could be considered a passing trend (i.e.: full brows with a square corner, high arches and a thin brow).

If you’re not infinitely confident in all of your beauty choices and would like something less permanent to enhance your brows without daily maintenance, you will like eyebrow tinting. Basically, this involves dying your brows a darker color and can be done at most salons when you have your hair done. It’s especially useful if you have dark hair but blonde eyebrows or brows so fair that you can’t see them from a distance. If you want to try this at home, The Beauty Department has a great tutorial. I love her recommendation of using a semi-permanent color for a more natural effect.

elf eyebrow kitI have full brows that, as long as I wax or pluck, look pretty good on their own. But, inexplicably, after having my son I suddenly had a bald spot right in the middle of my left brow. Hormones are fun, amiright? So, I had to start filling them in and discovered that they looked amazing when more polished and really made my eyes pop and pulled my whole look together. Who knew? My new favorite product is the e.l.f. Eye Brow kit. The combination of a wax and powder provides a natural look that I can apply in seconds.

I always follow up application by combing my brows in the right direction with a toothbrush. (A little piece of advice: don’t use the free toothbrush your kid got at a parade unless you want to hear them complain about how you “stole it” every time you do your makeup.)

clinique eyebrow mousse2A friend told me today that she just got the Clinique Eyebrow Mousse to try on her light eyebrows. I have not tried this myself, so I can’t wait to hear what she thinks of the long-lasting formula. (If you have tried it before, let me know in the comments.)

I have to mention my new favorite place for a last-minute waxing: Nails Spa on Joyce Blvd. (in the same parking lot as Pigtails and Crewcuts) takes walk-ins and only charges $8 for an eyebrow wax. I swear my eyebrows grow in overnight and go from groomed to Groucho with zero notice, so I have a tendency to just walk in and take whoever is available. I have had several ladies work on my brows since I discovered this gem last spring and have never been disappointed.

Now that you have your eyebrows well-groomed and defined, you will totally fool your kids with your surprised face when they gift you with another pair of slippers this year.

Andi, 150Andi Douglas is a mama of three and loves to play with makeup and other beauty supplies. She likes to try new products and services in the name of beauty editor here at nwaMotherlode.

Beauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”


Beauty Buzz: How to be runway ready for Thanksgiving

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I’m talking about the runway–the Big Show. The most important walk you make all year…the walk from the kitchen to the dining room carrying The Turkey. donna reed1You have planned for weeks, obsessed over the menu and Pinned 20 Thanksgiving how-to articles and now every eye is on you. You want your friends and family to think Donna Reed and Bobby Flay had a love child and she’s bringing them a turkey.

This is, personally, my first year hosting. I’m excited and looking forward to having two full families in my house (*quietly hyperventilating*) and showing off my inner Martha. In September I ransacked Hobby Lobby and bought all of my decor, setup my tables and took pictures and then stored everything in my bathtub until after Halloween. Because I’m an adult. But as much as the effort to pull this off might kill me, I don’t want to look it. Effortless grace is the goal.

Just like dinner prep, anything you can do the day before is a life safer. Give yourself a mini mani and pedi while you wait for your dough to rise (just kidding, while your rolls defrost) with a fun, autumn twist. Jamberry nail wraps have enough designs to choose from so that everyone can find a match, from the classic Apple Cider (love the base color), to the adorable Faux Fox and the very timely Gobble, Gobble turkey motif.

jamberry collageOn the big day, a combination of moisturizer, primer and foundation will help your base stay put all day. The trick is giving each product time to absorb before adding the next layer. If you are as impatient as I am, self-time by adding in tasks between application (ie: moisturize then fix your hair; prime then dress the kids). If you have not used a primer before, e.l.f. has a line of primers for several different skin types. I use the e.l.f. Mineral Infused Face Primer that “fills in lines and creates a flawless finish,” but at only $6 a bottle, you can definitely afford to experiment. FYI, I found it at the Fayetteville Walmart by the mall but the Elm Springs Walmart did not carry the brand, so don’t be deterred if it’s not at your usual store.

donna reed2If you really want to emulate a 50′s housewife: try not to touch your face. This sounds a little restrictive, but back in the day a woman would never have scratched her forehead at the table or rested her cheek in her hand while having a conversation. Don’t get me wrong — boo gender stereotypes, yay equality — but most of your foundation is lost due to these commonplace gestures.

One of my strongest memories of Thanksgiving at home was seeing my mom get up before dawn to put the turkey in (well, hearing about how she got up before dawn to cook the turkey while I laid on the couch and pretended to be sick because I was a brat). A late night prepping, paired with an early morning can make for some pretty gnarly circles under your eyes.

lorac double feature concealer and highlighterPrep the area with eye cream, as it plumps the skin and helps conceal the offending veins. Apply concealer with a yellow undertone to counter the purple color of the circles. Lorac’s “Double Feature” Concealer and Highlighter (Ulta, $25) promises “red carpet worthy correction” while “the other end lightens and brightens.”

Always apply concealer after your foundation. You will need to use less that way and you most likely remove half of it while applying foundation anyway. Using your ring finger, dot your concealer under your eye your eyes, starting at the inner corner. Allow the concealer to sit for a minute, so it will be warmed by your skin, therefore easier to blend. Gently tap the concealer to blend, again with your ring finger. In case you wondered, you want to use your ring finger because it is the weakest and will minimize pulling or tugging on the delicate under eye skin.

november 17 post too facedOkay, now that you’ve prepped, primed and shellacked, let’s add a little sparkle to wow your guests. Coordinate perfectly with your centerpiece a festive eye shadow palette like Too Faced Rock ‘n’ Roll Eyeshadow Palette (Amazon, $32). This palette encompassed all of the colors I’d envisioned for fall, but you can use it for inspiration for buying individual colors. That green would look gorgeous with brown eyes! And the names make you feel like the rock star you are for pulling off an awesome meal.

Now, you’re ready to eat, drink, be merry and then slip into a blissful turkey coma while everyone else cleans up! Gobble, gobble, y’all!

mr rogers look for the helpers275Note from Andi: I was writing when news of the tragedy in Paris broke and I am heartbroken at the loss. In times like this my favorite quote is one by Mr. Rogers, “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’”

Keep Paris in your thoughts and prayers this holiday season. Pray for peaceful hearts. Promote kindness and goodwill. Be a helper anywhere you can and be thankful. Thanks for being a community to aspire to, Mamas.

Happy Thanksgiving ~ Andi

Andi, 150Andi Douglas is a mama of three and loves to play with makeup and other beauty supplies. She likes to try new products and services in the name of beauty editor here at nwaMotherlode.

Beauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”


Beauty Buzz: Northwest Arkansas moms share their favorite beauty products

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What beauty product are you most thankful for?

‘Tis the season for everyone to start posting what they’re thankful for on Facebook. I never participate in the ritual because I can not be serious for 30 days straight and I’m not sure my sarcasm would be appreciated (ie: I’m thankful my kid finally cleaned his freakin’ room!)

However, I do understand the joy that can be found in appreciating the little things in life.

Maybe you had a nightmare day, but, hey, you got to use a brand new razor this morning. Or your kid just up-chucked all over his lovey, but you were all caught up on laundry and the washer and dryer were free…score!

In the spirit of giving thanks, I asked some lovely moms which beauty products they’re most thankful for. Here are their favorites:

Olay Regenerist Luminous overnight mask gel moisturizer. With skin as dry as mine, the cooling moisturizer feels like heaven. I use it during the day, too. I’m a rebel! ~ Andi

porefection concealerMy Lorac POREfection concealer is perfect for the dark circles under my eyes. ~ Morgan

A Chi flat iron. I use it every day. ~ Brandi

Rodan and Fields night cream is a nightly staple for me. ~ Lisa

Rodan and Fields Reverse regimen is my new favorite. ~ Amy

*I’m not all surprised that R and F was mentioned twice. I barely go a day without someone mentioning it.

Deodorant because you’re not very pretty if your stinky. ~ Lisa

Gold Bond hand cream. I keep it in my purse and use it all the time. ~ Lynda

Makeup Forever HD translucent powder. I read somewhere that it is like “photoshop for skin” so I was all in. I do think it helps people like me whose pores are large enough to drive a truck through. ~ Gwen

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*Thank you for providing the first product I want to try from this list and an image I may never shake.

My Sephora “Full Action” mascara. ~ Shannon

Toothpaste because I talk too much to not have fresh breath. ~ Desty

boots no. 7Boots No7 Protect and Perfect Intense kit. Seriously, my skin looks like my 6 year olds now. Looking back at selfies I can see a dramatic reduction in the lines around my mouth and eyes. ~ Stephanie

Estée Lauder eye cream. Really good for those little lines we all get around our eyes. ~ Patty

I can’t think of anything. ~ Nikki the natural beauty

After randomly assaulting my friends with questions, I am very thankful for the diverse group of women I have gotten to meet through my kids activities. You all made me smile today and that totally makes up for having to help my stubborn first grader with her math homework.

Andi, 150Andi Douglas is a mama of three and loves to play with makeup and other beauty supplies. She likes to try new products and services in the name of beauty editor here at nwaMotherlode. She received a complimentary facial from Revive for an honest review of their services.

Beauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”


Beauty Buzz: What’s it like to get a microdermabrasion treatment?

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By Andi Douglas, nwaMotherlode beauty editor

Despite my penchant for high ponytails and a wardrobe mostly supplied from the teen department, I am actually in my (gulp) late thirties and have started noticing the telltale signs of age on my face.

In an attempt to get ahead of this sinking ship, I have been looking into more extensive skin care options than just a daily wash and lotion. I know enough to realize dry skin is behind the bulk of my problems.

A microdermabrasion facial seemed like a great first step, but a google search encompassed everything from spinning brushes to facial wipes and a whole bunch of images of 20 year old models. It did not really answer my questions. So when Revive Medical Spa offered to have me review a micro-facial, I jumped at the chance to answer some of the basic questions that others might have, but aren’t sure how to ask.

First of all, let me just get this one out of the way: You don’t have to take off your pants. I know, who would ask that? This gal, right here.

You are provided with a nifty towel wrap that leaves your shoulders and collarbone bare for the treatment and then you get under cozy blankets on a heated table. You will want to be comfortable, so I went pants free but you can skip shaving if you want because you’ll be tucked in nice and tight. There, now no one else has to embarrass themselves with that question.

I was also provided with a oh-so-glamorous giant terry cloth scrunchy (that is my best description) to get my hair out of the way. I, of course, forgot a rubber band and dug through my purse to find the world’s tiniest elastic to wrangle my mane. Learn from my mistakes, wear your hair in a bun if it’s long enough to be a burden. Also, no matter how giant that scrunchy is, the lotions and scrubs used will most likely make it into your hairline, so you’ll probably want to wash your hair anyway.

I went in full makeup (I was trying to “represent” or something dorky) so the first step was removing every last bit. Sleep in that day and go bare faced; save yourself the trouble. If you aren’t going straight to the spa, just put on your activewear like you plan on working out.

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Revive aesthetician, Kat

Once she had a clean slate, my aesthetician, Kat, exfoliated my skin using a brightening scrub with buffing grains. She gently massaged the product onto my face, neck and collarbone. Apparently, anytime someone touches my neck I think I’m being murdered for a split second. Maybe I should review a psychiatrist next.

Then, she applied a fruit acid toner to complete the exfoliation. She warned that it could sting a little, so Kat held a fan on my face during the process. Either it was a really effective fan or the toner isn’t that bad, because I barely felt anything.

This prep work is to get your skin ready for the big show: Microdermabrasion.

I admit, I had no idea what to expect here and was pretty nervous. I had been told to keep my eyes closed because of the toner but I couldn’t resist a peek once I heard a machine click on. I peeked, so you don’t have to. The whirring sound was coming from a small wand that reminded my of the sprayer at the dentist office but a little fatter. Not the calming effect I had hoped for but it turned out to be quite nice.

The tool feels like a tiny vacuum sucking away all of the dead skin and anything clogging your pores. The aesthetician slowly pulls the dime sized tip across your skin of your face and down onto your neck.  After the first pass, I asked Kat to turn down the suction because it felt a little intense, but after a couple of more swipes, I told her she could turn it back up.

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Andi selfie at Revive!

The only place I felt any pain was on the thinner skin underneath my neck. Kat did tell me that most people are more sensitive there so I sucked it up and didn’t say anything. Later that day, I noticed that a had a hickey like stripe on my throat, where I had noticed the pain. Lesson learned: do not be afraid to speak up if something doesn’t feel right. Kat could have easily adjusted the suction for that area of skin and I will tell her next time.

Also, I’ve always heard the warnings to not get a facial the day of a special event and this is why. You never know how your skin will react to a treatment. My bruise was minor, easily covered by makeup and gone within two days, but I did have to listen to my husband joke about my hickey for that time.

After Kat was done, she applied the most wonderfully cool milk mask and massaged my hands and arms while that set.

Of course, the best part was petting my own soft skin afterwards. My nose has been plagued with blackheads and dry patches for as long as I can remember, and it was perfectly smooth. I literally could not stop touching it and looked completely crazy at Walmart afterwards. I, also, couldn’t stop trying to smell my own face. I may be on a Walmart watch list now.

This is considered a “zero turn around” facial, meaning you can immediately put on makeup or work out, whatever you would normally do without any recovery time. But you will probably be so happy with your glowing skin that you will want to go makeup free for a couple of days.

When you do have to dip back into your cosmetic bag, you will notice your makeup goes on smoother and your products absorb better into your skin.

Kat recommended repeating the facial every 4-6 weeks. Now that winter is here, this would be a perfect treat instead of your summer pedicures and it will help combat the drying effects of winter.

Andi, 150Andi Douglas is a mama of three and loves to play with makeup and other beauty supplies. She likes to try new products and services in the name of beauty editor here at nwaMotherlode. She received a complimentary facial from Revive for an honest review of their services.

Beauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”


Beauty Buzz: 45 thoughts I had while getting a massage

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I recently had the opportunity to receive a Swedish massage at Revive Medical Spa in Fayetteville. I realize there are people in the world who can walk into a massage, strip down, turn off their brains and just enjoy the experience. I am not one of those people. My hatred of an awkward silence and penchant for verbal diarrhea translates into an ongoing mental dialogue with myself, and honestly, my conversation partner is not all there.

45 Thoughts I had while getting a massage:

(I am introduced to Judy and escorted back to a massage room.)

Spa-Girl-Graphic11. Judy seems nice, not at all intimidating. I can do this.

2. Do I leave my underwear on? Yes. No.

3. Can’t do it. Yes. I’m so Baptist.

4. Who puts the slippers on to walk two feet to the table?

5. Hmmm, I look kinda sexy when I look up in the mirror.

6. This is as close as I will ever get to boudoir photos.

7. I’m so embarrassed for me.

8. Judy’s coming back in. Do I stick my face in the hole? That seems rude.

9. She just asked if I was uncomfortable sticking my face in the hole…WRONG CALL!

10. Find the gap for breathing and forcibly relax.

11. Medium or light pressure? I don’t want to seem like a wuss. “Medium.”

12. “Are you comfortable?”
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13. My stomach keeps growling and I sound like I’m purring like a cat.

14. Maybe I am purring like a cat.

15. Nope, definitely hungry. The decision to skip breakfast for fear of “tootiness” was not wise.

16. She keeps using my name.

17. I’m awful with names. Maybe she wrote it on her arm.

18. Okay, I’m going to zone out while she works on my “hip area”. Don’t need to think too much about that.

19. Does she think it’s weird I left my underwear on?

20. massage shouldersWhat’s more awkward, granny panties or a thong?

21. Aaaah, lower back heaven.

22. She tucked the sheet into my waistband. I think it’s helpful! Or she’s trying to get it out of the way….I have to let this go.

23. Movin’ on up, to the east side…

24. Oh no! She found the knots in my shoulders. This is always bad.

25. This is medium pressure? What’s hard?

*fyi: I asked Judy afterward if she increased the pressure on my shoulders to work out the knots because it was very tender, and she said she actually decreased the pressure because I visibly flinched. Turns out I am just a wuss and have freakishly knotted shoulders. This did remind me of the advice I received once to take ibuprofen an hour before a massage.

25. Ow, ow, ow, aaaaaaah…got the knot out.

26. Ah, the front part is the best. That sounds weird. Oh wait, I’m just thinking that so who cares.

27. Oh wait, I’m going to write this for everyone to read.

28. Ach! Hands around my neck! Nope, she’s not killing me.

29. She keeps wiggling my arms trying to get me to relax them, but suddenly I’m hyper-aware of my bones.

30. I feel like one of those cloth dolls with wires in their arms. RELAX!no kid zone massage

31. Oh, did I remember to check the kids folders last night?

33. Aaaaaaah…

34. Where does she keep getting the lotion? I swear that time she did not take her hands off of me and still got more lotion.

35. What kind of wizardry is this?

36. My skin is going to look so awesomely moisturized. I’m glad I wore a skirt.

37. Lol, remember that Will and Grace where the girl massaging Grace says she goes where the tension is..

foot massage38. Mmm, the eye mask feels cool.
*Judy looked at me bewildered when I said it felt cold. Apparently, the eye mask has no specific cooling qualities.

39. Oh, the foot cream does smell good. Bad move, Cady.

40. Oh no, I fell asleep.

41. Can’t…sleep…through…relaxation…zzzz

42. Dang it!

andi revive with caption43. I don’t know much about reflexology but I’m afraid a full hour massage might put me into a coma.

44. I don’t want to be dooooone. *crying on the inside* “That was perfect, thank you.”

45. I definitely need to do this again.

Like most things in life, once I can get past my fear of being naked around strangers, I have a pretty good time.

revive medical spaBeauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”



Beauty Buzz: The prettiest trends for fall

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By Andi Douglas, beauty editor

It’s that time of year again. The Thanksgiving aisle at Hobby Lobby has been picked clean and the first Christmas commercials have been spotted. We must be on the cusp of fall!

So throw out your pink nail polish and bright lipstick and switch everything to fall colors.

Just kidding, you can wear whatever you want because ‘Merica, but if you are looking to mix things up a little or like to color coordinate with foliage, here are the best beauty trends for the upcoming season:

Black Eyeliner: I always get especially tingly when a classic smokey eye is at the top of a trends list because I can’t not wear my black eyeliner (that was an intentional double-negative, so it’s cool). And with Amy Schumer’s glorious shout-out to “the girl who gave me this sort of smokey eye” during her Emmys acceptance speech Sunday night, I have a feeling its popularity is going to grow as fast as Amy’s career. Who doesn’t want to be Amy Schumer right now?

Peach or Rose-colored Blush: I type this with an audible sigh of relief, that a more natural glow is quickly replacing the heavy contouring that has been in vogue a la the Kardashians.

You may have noticed a gap in my beauty coverage on this topic because I simply can not wrap my mind around using so much makeup that you literally change the shape of your face. And I am slightly nervous that if I try it and love the look that I will be forever disappointed in my normal, less angular cheekbones.

To get the easy going glow, try Warm Soul by Mac  or Peachy Cheeky by ELF.

Mascara: Okay, that’s a little simplistic, but if you haven’t tried it already, now is the time to start using mascara on your lower lashes to achieve a Twiggy-esque, eye-opening effect. Twiggy actually used to draw her lower lashes on with liquid liner (don’t do that) so don’t be disappointed if your lashes seem sparse in comparison. This is another thing that I have always done and it never occurred to me that it wasn’t normal. I’m kind of pumped…I feel like this is really my year!

Metallic Manicures: Anything that shines will always garner attention (we are kind of like raccoons that way) but too much shine on my face makes me feel like I’m trying to get into T-Swift’s squad.

Nails, both finger and toe, are a fun way to experiment with some shine and feel at home in the way cooler PTA squad.

blue nailsNeutral colors were hot for Spring, so an easy update is adding a “dew drop” effect with copper polish by using a toothpick to add a few strategic dots of color before your polish has dried. Using the same copper polish on your toes will give you a coordinated look without being too matchy-matchy.

If you love color, color and more color, the metallic blue of Essie’s Aruba Blue is for you. This is actually the exact color I want to use in my bedroom, so I may carry a bottle around to look at fabric. Find inspiration wherever you can, right?

I apologize for not finding any Pumpkin Spice products for you to try, but from what I understand you can literally find them anywhere, at any time, and in any form.

If I stumble upon a PS eye cream or something, I promise to update immediately. Until then, I will just have to settle on a PS coffee from the Kum and Go (because a Starbucks habit can get expensive and cut into a girl’s beauty budget).

Happy Fall Y’all!

revive medical spaBeauty Buzz is sponsored by Revive Medical Spa, which offers a full range of medical, cosmetic, and therapeutic services, with the latest technology and knowledgeable clinicians and staff. Located in Fayetteville, Revive serves the communities of Northwest Arkansas, Southwest Missouri, and Eastern Oklahoma. Revive’s massage therapists and estheticians personalize every relaxing service to each guest’s individual needs. “Your visit will whisk you away and leave you feeling revived.”

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Beauty Buzz: I’m pregnant and my face is breaking out. Help!

Dear Andi,

Eek! I am pregnant for the first time and thought I would have a beautiful, healthy glow. Instead, I am breaking out like a teenager. Any tips?

Dear First-Time Mama:

Well, the good news is that the breakouts generally decrease the further you get into your pregnancy and your body adjusts to the flood of hormones attacking your, already, overwhelmed system. Also, it’s one of those pregnancy side effects that you conveniently forget about once you are holding your baby in your arms and you will be just as surprised by your pubescent skin problems the next time around.

For now, the best advice is to drink lots of water and try to hydrate your skin as often as possible. That little bundle of joy is stealing as much fluid from your body as possible, which leaves your skin flaky and dry.

All of those flakes lead to clogged pores and increased blemishes, so exfoliate with a gentle cleanser, or mix a little sugar in with your normal face wash.

If you want to try something stronger to zap a zit, be leery of the usual Retin-A products or anything medicated. Because your skin will be much more sensitive to the sun when you are pregnant, you could end up with giant patches of sunburn on your face, which might distract from the pimple, but not the way you wanted.

When in doubt, call the nurse at your OB or your dermatologist. If you do see a specialist make sure you let them know you are pregnant, even if superstition would normally prevent you from sharing the good news too soon. Not all medications, even topical treatments, are safe for moms-to-be.

A little bit of cover-up and strategically applied make-up might help until the baby-acne fades away. If you don’t usually need cover-up, use the thicker part of your foundation from the lid or rim of the bottle. Dab lightly with your finger and blend.

More good news, we’ve all been there and can sympathize. Good advice also for later, when you are grocery shopping and your new baby has pooped something horrific and is screaming at the top of his lungs. Good Luck!

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Beauty Buzz: How to go makeup-less this summer

Dear Andi,

During the summer, I hate wearing makeup. How can I look my best with a bare face?

Andi: With this sticky heat and frequent trips to the pool, I have been taking a vacation from makeup, too. I haven’t worn foundation in over a month and not only have I not missed it, but I haven’t had one blemish or breakout…a pleasant surprise.

originsThe natural look is all about the prep-work. If your skin is in good shape, people will notice your natural glow, not your lack of eye-liner.

Start by exfoliating away the dead skin that dulls your skin and leaves it uneven. My mom and sister both rave about Origins Modern Friction: Nature’s gentle dermabrasion (Dillards, $37.50) and are so enamored they actually bought me my own so I could try it and they are right…I love the gentle exfoliating and saw an instant improvement in my skin’s tone.

Of course, you need to moisturize, but as I’ve gotten older, regular face lotion isn’t enough. BeautiControl’s Regeneration Skin Renewing Lotion tightens my skin while moisturizing, which helps to minimize those pesky lines that are popping up everyday.

The common misconception is that foregoing makeup means you don’t care what you look like or don’t try and that just isn’t true. But, nothing will make you look more like a crazy bag lady than rogue eyebrows and without the distraction of make-up, a neglected brow will be all the more obvious.

If you are new to this amazing, yet torturous, grooming routine it’s a good idea to go into a salon to have an initial brow shaping and then maintain it at home with tweezing. In the past, I was anti-tweezing and had a waxing about once a month, but there has been a lot of talk about how waxing can cause your eyelids to sag over time so I gave in and have been brow-scaping at home.

softlipsFor slightly less painful tweezing, pluck after a hot shower so the hair follicles are loose. If you have a lot of work to do (like I do right now) a cool new trick I learned is to put a little Orabase mouth ulcer cream on your brow to numb the area first.

Most importantly, do not over-tweeze! With no makeup on, a full brow will add much needed color and dimension, where an overly plucked pencil-thin brow will be a stark contrast to you otherwise natural face.

Finally, keep your lips hydrated with Softlips Lip Balm, available at Walmart. It is super hydrating, but leaves a matte finish that looks great by itself or over lipstick.

Going bare can take some getting used to, but when people tell you look nice or compliment your glowing skin, it feels wonderful, because it’s all you!

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remix (4)Note from the mamas: The Summer Remix symbol appears on posts previously published on nwaMotherlode that were noted as a “reader favorite”. If you missed the original publication date, we hope you’ll enjoy this encore performance. Happy summer!

Beauty Buzz: Sunless tanning tips you need to try

By Andi Douglas, nwaMotherlode beauty editor

Hooray for warm weather and sunshine, Northwest Arkansas! It’s officially summer.

Now that it’s swimsuit weather, I need to hightail it to the drugstore for some self-tanner.

I’m sure we all tried self-tanner in high school, and it resulted in orange palms, streaky forearms, and a lot of ruined bras, making us swear of the stuff for good. But, with the push on the dangers of sun exposure, we are all searching for alternative tanning methods. Beauty companies have answered our pleas by  perfecting their formulas and developing better ways to apply.

The unwanted side effects of sunless tanning can be avoided before you ever open the bottle.

Here are some tips:

The golden rule to a consistent glow is exfoliating. An exfoliating product with a gritty texture will remove the most dry skin. They are also really easy to make at home. Pay special attention to your elbows, knees and ankles, or anywhere you’ve noticed darker spots in the past. For some reason, I always have problems around my collar bone, so I give that area a second pass when I exfoliate.

Next, lotion your whole body and wait about ten minutes before applying tanner, to give the lotion time to sink in. If you put some lotion on your hands immediately before application time, it will help keep the color from clinging to your palms. This is also a good idea for under your arms and behind your knees.

Now, it’s time to pick a product.

As far as a color goes, this can take a little trial and error, since different brands have varying formulas based on your skin’s undertones. Specialty beauty stores, like Ulta and Sephora, will often have samples to try or employees trained to help you determine your coloring.

loreal sublime bronzeIf you are still having flashbacks from your senior pictures where you looked like you bathed in Sunny D, you may be a little reluctant to try DIY tanning again. Products like Jergens Natural Glow Daily Moisturizer are tanning solutions mixed with a lotion so the effects are more gradual and take several applications to see a huge result. But, the margin for error is much smaller.

If you can’t wait, L’oreal Sublime Bronze has an instant bronzer, which shows immediate results and will also help achieve even coverage. Other formulas can take a couple of hours to show their full effects. 

Now the fun/scary part: Applying The Tanner (in my head that sounded all echoey and ominous).

The main rule is to be consistent and make sure you get it everywhere the sun would touch; so, not on the soles or heels of your feet. After it is thoroughly rubbed in, take a dry washcloth and gently buff your knees, elbows and ankles, because no matter how well you exfoliated, those dry spots will still soak up more tanner. If you apply tanner to your face, use the washcloth on your eyebrows and along your hairline as well.

Wait at least 10 minutes before putting on your makeup and clothes, and opt for loose fitting clothes when possible. This is another benefit from DIYing your tan, instead of going to a spray tan joint. I just can’t bring myself to walk all the way to my car at a strip mall bra-less.

Women with darker complexions also benefit from a little bottled sun. Even though you may not be blinding people with your bare legs (sooooo jealous), tanner can help even out your skin tone and gives off a warm, summery glow.

Now, dig out your sun hats and go play outside! I highly recommend a Nerf gun fight with your kids; it’s very therapeutic.

Andi, 2014Andi loves playing with makeup/beauty products and writing about her experiences. She welcomes your questions and feedback at Beauty Buzz. E-mail her at 

Beauty Buzz: How to apply your makeup so it stays puts on Prom Night!

By Andi Douglas, beauty editor and mama of 3

Throw your hands in the air like you just don’t care…’cause you’re leaving the kids at home and going to Mom Prom!!! Woot-Woot! This is the first year I’ve been able to attend and I am so pumped for a chance to get dolled up and dance the night away.

However, I do not want to dance my makeup away.

A trip to Ulta and a little extra effort will keep you Prom picture ready all night long (and there will be pics available for free download after the party thanks to MJW Photography, so you want to be ready).

Just like Maria taught us, “Let’s start at the beginning, a very good place to start.” Make sure to exfoliate your face and neck so you have a smooth surface to start with. When dry skin flakes off, it takes your makeup with it.

Prep your face with a silicone based moisturizing primer, like Revlon Beyond Natural Smoothing Primer to smooth out your skin for a clean canvas. Always allow moisturizing products at least 5 minutes to completely sink in before moving on to your makeup.

When looking for foundation, oil-free formulas stay put the longest and a light dusting of translucent powder will help to absorb any oils that are makeup zappers.

Eye makeup is an easy and fun way to amp up your normal look for a fun night out, but raccoon eyes by 8:30 may not be the look you are going for. Liquid and gel liners last longer than pencil and are great for trying out the popular cateye look. But if you have shaky hands like me or true love connection with your pencil, use a slant-tip brush to trace over your eyeliner with a matching powder eyeshadow to help it stay put.

makeupIf you are afraid you might get caught up in the nostalgia of it all and end up weeping in the girls room, waterproof mascara is a good investment. To avoid the clumping that tends to come with the long wear formula, barely touch the wand to your lashes and apply in quick, thin layers before it has a chance to dry.

There are a couple of options for making your eyeshadow last through every photo op. An eyeshadow base topped with a powder shadow will set the makeup in place. Or slightly dampen your eyeshadow brush with water before applying. This will make your colored shadows more vibrant, so you may want to experiment a little before the big night.

My blush is always the first to go, so I end up pinching my cheeks halfway through the night. A gel, liquid, or cream cheek stain can be a little tricky to use but have major staying power. Blend with the tips of your fingers for a natural glow. And don’t be afraid to test out your favorite lipstick as a blush substitute. That is what I use for my girls dance recitals because it stands up to wandering hands and major meltdowns much better than powder blush.

If you prefer your powder blush (I’m with ya sister), rub a cotton ball or pad in your blush and put it in a snack size baggie in your purse for on-the-go application.

Finally, to keep your pucker picture perfect, first line your lips with a neutral colored lip liner to keep your hue in it’s place. Then, apply several thin coats of your lipstick with a brush. This allows for the pigment to sink for a longer lasting effect.

Now your makeup will look as good as your dance moves until they play “Closing Time”. Do they still play that? I have no idea; it’s been so long since I’ve been out…OMG, I’m so excited! Start warming up your Roger Rabbit and Cabbage Patch!

P.S. — If you feel hopeless with makeup, no worries. There will be a GLAM SQUAD at the Mom Prom! Brieshi Salon & Spa professionals will be there to touch up your makeup and hair. We’ll feel like celebrities!

Andi, 2014Have a question for Andi, beauty blogger and fellow mama of three? Andi welcomes your questions and feedback to Beauty Buzz. E-mail her your hair and makeup questions to:

Beauty Buzz: Smoothies to make your skin look healthier

By Andi Douglas, mama of 3 and nwaMotherlode beauty editor

If you have a grade-school student in your house then you definitely know Earth Day was last week and were treated to all kinds of guilt inducing fact bombs about the environment.

You may even have had a Coke bottle taken directly from your hand and thrown into the recycling bin before you were finished. Sure, she can’t seem to get a tissue in the trash to save her life but my kindergartner was going to make dang sure mom’s soda bottle was someday made into carpet.

Our generation grew up during an innovation boom, where there was some new laboratory-created miracle product to try every day. Who wasn’t pumped about Oleo before we found out it causes major potty problems? Eek! And you absolutely had to rush out and buy all new lotion with Q10 when it hit the market.

The more we learn and experiment, the more people are overwhelmed by the flood of data and opinions available via the internet and we are starting to return to more organic, natural ways to maintain a youthful look and lifestyle.

So, in honor of Earth Day I found some natural, healthy and yummy smoothie recipes to make your skin glow. Nothing is more comforting than finding solutions in your veggie crisper instead of a plastic jar.

Bobbi Brown, makeup guru, demonstrated how to make her breakfast smoothie for healthy skin on GMA last week and it looked easy and delicious.


  • Water
  • Coconut Milk
  • Two scoops of protein powder
  • Little bit of cacao nibs
  • Ice
  • One banana
  • Handful of berries
  • Kale leaves
  • One scoop of hemp seeds

Blend well and enjoy!

I do not usually keep protein powder on hand, but I like the idea of starting my day with the energy boost without taking the time to make eggs. Here’s a recipe for a protein-packed smoothie using cottage cheese for a delicious creamy texture.

pineapplePina Colada Smoothie

  • ½ cup low fat cottage cheese
  • a splash of coconut milk
  • coconut flakes
  • fresh pineapple

I have never been a fan of the texture of cottage cheese but this seems perfect for a summer day and does not have the tangy flavor of greek yogurt, a favorite protein source in smoothies.

Here are a few ingredients to add one to your regular favorites for an added boost to your skin:

Sunflower seeds: a good source of copper for glowing skin and hair, they also have protein, Vitamin E and folate.

Almond butter: a popular alternative for people with peanut allergies, almonds and almond butter can help protect your skin from UV rays via Vitamin E.

Tropical fruits: the Vitamin C found in pineapple, papaya, kiwi and other tropical fruits helps your body to produce the skin firming protein collagen. BRB, going to Hawaii! (Note: Or we can all go to the NWA Mom Prom on May 30th. Tropical themed this year and I hear they’ll have lots of tropical fruit and fruity drinks. Woo-hoo!)

If you’re like me, you’ll find a recipe you love and then make it so often you kill it. I definitely see an untimely demise for that Pina Colada smoothie. So, share your favorite concoction in the comments so we can all enjoy. Happy “Mom, that’s soooo bad for the Earth” Day!

Andi, 2014Andi Douglas is a Northwest Arkansas mama of three who loves to play with make-up. We’re lucky that she shares her beauty tips, tricks and finds with us here. If you’ve got a question for Andi, contact her at She can also answer your hair questions.

Beauty Buzz: How to clean your makeup tools so you don’t get sick

By Andi Douglas, mama of 3 and nwaMotherlode beauty editor

If you’ve been anywhere near social media in the past week, I’m sure you saw this story about a young mother who was paralyzed after using a friend’s make-up brush and contracting a bacterial infection.

Helloooo, worst fear realized.

Although this was an extreme case and it would be rare to share something as personal as makeup with someone who happened to have a staph infection, even everyday oils from another’s skin can mess with your personal balance and cause breakouts.

Or perhaps you think you would never, ever share because “ew”. But if you have little girls in the house that like to play dress-up or teenage boys who might sneak some concealer to hide a blemish, you may unwittingly be encountering the tiny little germs that your family has brought home with them.

Still think you’re immune? At the very least, dirty makeup brushes disrupt your makeup application and that $40 bottle of concealer is going to be a waste.

So now that we have the heebie-jeebies, let’s talk about the proper way to clean makeup brushes:

baby shampooOnce a week, after you’ve done your makeup to allow for drying time, run your brushes under warm water focusing on the tips. Put a small amount of baby shampoo into the palm of your hand and swirl your brush around, similar to how you apply your makeup, to work the shampoo into the bristles.

Rinse under the warm water again, gently squeezing the water out until it runs clear. Be sure not to pull hard at the base because that will result in loose bristles over time.

Although baby shampoo will get the job done, I like to use a grease cutting dish soap for my foundation brush because it seems to cut through the oily product better. This will work the same on makeup sponges but those do need to be replaced every couple of weeks since they are more difficult to get a deep clean.

If you are in the habit of sharing makeup brushes daily with a roommate or your daughter, a daily brush cleaner, like this one from Sephora, will help keep your brushes fresh between deep cleaning.

Sharpening your eyeliner should remove any tainted bits if shared, but don’t forget the little smudgy thing at the end!!! Give it a cleaning as well, especially if you have shared it lately.

mascaraSadly, there is no way to clean a mascara wand and once it has been reinserted into the tube your mascara becomes a tiny jet black incubator for all kinds of bacteria. Regardless of who all is using your mascara, it is recommended that you replace it every three months, especially if you are prone to sties or other eye infections.

This is why I stick to drugstore mascara instead of splurging on the pricier department store brands. I just can’t make myself throw away a $25 mascara, but $7, I can handle.

If it’s been awhile since you took the time to clean your tools, you will be shocked by how good it feels and will quickly get hooked on the weekly ritual.

If you feel like freaking someone out this week, ask a stranger in a public restroom if you can borrow their makeup and watch them back away from you like you’re the carrier monkey from Outbreak.

Andi, 2014Andi Douglas is a Northwest Arkansas mama of three who loves to play with make-up. We’re lucky that she shares her beauty tips, tricks and finds with us here. If you’ve got a question for Andi, contact her at She can also answer your hair questions.