Dear Rhonda,

My husband gets his hair cut every 2 to 3 weeks. Is this REALLY necessary? It seems a little obsessive-compulsive to me. He says it irritates him if he can feel the hair on his collar. How often should a man have his hair cut? What’s normal?

Dear To cut or not to cut,

Most men get a cut about every 3 to 4 weeks. Usually men’s hair is much shorter and requires more upkeep for it to look “cleaned up”. They also tend to have more hair growing on their neck, which probably does bother them when their collar rubs it.

Now about “normal”… I’m afraid you’ve come to the wrong person to answer this one. What is “normal” anyway? My theory is that perhaps the people who accuse others of not being “normal” are really the oddballs after all. Tune in next week for more “deep thoughts” from the mind of Rhonda, the hair mama.

Rhonda Moulder is a mama to two beautiful daughters and is also a stylist at Blue Door & Co. in downtown Bentonville. E-mail her a hair question at mamas@nwaMotherlode.com or call for an appointment at the salon at 479-273-4433. Have a happy hair day.